Kalani Faagata is a reality TV star well-known for her fantastic acting in 90 Day Fiance. She recently posted a story on Instagram where Kalani shared a beverage with her sons and ex-husband Asuelu. This arouses curiosity among fans, and they repeatedly ask the question, “Are Kalani and Asuele still together?
No, they are not, but for co-parenting purposes, they often meet. In the same Instagram story, Kalani admitted that she and Asuelu got long-term therapy sessions to achieve a peaceful way to cooperate with their children.
In this article, we dive into detail to know about Kalani and Asuelu’s relationship, when they met, how they got married, what happened between the couple that they they decided to split their paths. So stay with us!
Who is Kalani
Kalani is a reality star who was born in California. Until her 20’s she was raised in Mormon LDS Faith. She pursued her career in public health and got real fame from a reality show, 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?
| Name | Kalani Faagata |
| Hometown | California |
| Nationality | American |
| Date of Birth | 2nd July, 1988 |
| Age | 36 years, as of 2025 |
| Zodiac Sign | Cancer |
| Social Media | Instagram—@kalanifaagata |
| Profession | Actress |
| Net Worth | $500,000 with Asuelu |
| Marital Status | Divorced |
| Ex Boyfriend | Asuelu |
| Currently dating | Dallas Nuez |
Who is Asuelu
Asuele is also a TV personality who became famous after his show 90 Days: The Late Resort with his ex-wife Kalani. As he belongs to a rich cultural heritage, it becomes difficult for him to adjust to American culture, but his charm endeared him to fans.
| Name | Asuelu Pulaa |
| Hometown | Falealili, Upolu, Samoa |
| Nationality | Samoan |
| Date of Birth | 15 May, 1995 |
| Age | 29 years, as of 2025 |
| Zodiac Sign | Taurus |
| Height | 5.7” |
| Profession | Actress |
| Net Worth | $500,000 with Kalani |
| Marital Status | Divorced |
| Ex-Wife | Kalani |
Kalani and Asuelu Relationship
In 2017, Kalani went on vacation to Samoa. She stayed in a resort and Asuelu was working there. They met each other and started spending time together. During the stay, Kalani got pregnant, and in 2018, the couple was blessed with a baby boy, Olive. At that point, they planned to get married soon.
They decided to move to America and raise their son well. For this purpose, Asuelu got a K-1 visa and came to Utah, where Kalani’s parents met Asuelu for the first time. They raised their concerns about their relationship, especially Kalani’s mother, who was not happy with the decision.
Even Kalani’s sister also got negative vibes for Asuelu, and she warned Kalani about this. Despite all the family drama, the couple tried to love each other and got married as soon as possible. At that tough time, they were blessed with a second baby boy, Kennedy, and hoped that their family would support them on their big day.
Luckily, their families joined them on their big day in 2018. In the coming year, the couple decided to appear in a TV reality show, 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?
Why Kalani and Asuelu Breakup
When everything was finally settled, they decided to gather their families and spend some time together. As per plan, Asuelu’s family came to America, and he presented them with welcoming gifts. Later on, These gifts became the reason for the dispute between Kalani and Asuele.
When Kalani met with Asuelu’s sister and mother, her mother expressed her thoughts about Asuele returning to Samoa, while Tammy, Asuelu’s sister, argued about money, which created more tension and drama.
Although both of them were trying hard to maintain their relationship and focus on their sons, the pandemic worsened the situation, and they went for relationship therapy. After many hurdles, the couple remain together till season 6 of 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?
However, Kalani discovered Asuelu’s unfair affairs and unclosed them in October 2023 in season 1 of 90 Day: The Last Resort. Asuelu admitted his affair with another woman while visiting Samoa. But he decided to work on their relationship and gave the hall pass to Kalani to kiss another man. Kalani took the hall pass and started dating Dallas Nuez.
She also admitted that she was doing other things despite kissing her hall pass. The couple sought therapy again, but this time, therapy won’t help, and She visited the Attorney to find out how the potential divorce would impact Asuelu’s immigration status. In the final episode, they divorced on mutual terms. However, they kept in touch and met often for the sake of their children.
Are Kalani and Asuelu Still Together
After setting their paths apart, Kalani and Asuelu met on January 27, 2024, for their son Oliver’s birthday. Kalani wrote in an Instagram story
“Cooperating for our big boy’s special day. So proud of us! Took a year, some therapy, and tears, but we did it!”
Before that, on 13 January 2024, Asuele shared photos with her sons, both of them were getting along with her children, with the caption
“ Great time together # coparenting”
Final Words
Kalani and Asuelu, 90 Days Fiance actors, were married in 2018 and have two sons together. During their relationship, they faced lots of financial hurdles, and they remained mentally disturbed. For this purpose, they also got lots of therapy sessions, but things didn’t work, and they ended up with a divorce in 2023. However, they mutually cooperate on co-parenting, and for this purpose, they often meet each other and have a good time with their children.
